so today , i was going through my old old messages (msn stage) and i stumbled across a conversation that i had with an ex boyfriend. I came to realise how much i have grown as a person  and  as a young woman. When you are young you don't realise the meaning or importance behind certain words and you just say them because your vocabulary is not as wide as it would be if you were older so you end up using words that haven't got that specific emotion attached to it.
        Hate, hate is a word that is used daily in conversations. it's easy to say that you 'hate' a particular thing or persons but you don't really 'hate' them, you just dislike them. however, we all find it easier and quicker to say the word 'hate' because it's easier than saying dislike. Think about what you say before you say it and make sure that the emotion you are feeling or looking for is in the word you are using.
 - Remember . . . the tongue is a killer but the brain is the triger.